Love and relationship is not about appearance or actions in front of others.
It's about the feeling behind close door when no one is around,
when the two of you look at each other, does you both feel really happy
to have found the other parties. No maybe, it's a yes or no.
It's about the feeling deep inside you. The mutual feelings between the two.
Have you been asking yourself:
Is this relationship what you really want?
You am tired but you don't know what the road in front of you?
Or is there another guy/girl who suits you better?
You might feel the relationship is right but you don't know what's on his/her mind?
It's time for a change.
Relationship is about finding a lifetime partner.
You can change for now but tolerance is not freeflow.
Are you being yourself? Or being shadowed by what he/she wants?
The only thing that makes a relationship work is,
Satisfaction. 知足. 知足常乐!
If both parties can understand what the above means, that's enough.
Being happy of what you have is really more than enough for a relationship to sustain.
If you compare, complain, comment or start any commotions,
what's the point of being with him/her?
Some may find Z not good enough.
But some is more than happy to have Z.
There are alot of singles out there who
wish to have be attached and own what you have.
Really depends on how you wants to see things and be happy with it.